No Dad is better than a piece of shit Dad

So I'm not even sure at this point when kiddo last talked to his Dad... They saw each other a bit before Christmas and maybe talked once after kiddo birthday and nothing since then. I did get a really weird message (for kiddo) on my voice mail quite a while back that said something about not being able to call for a long time...but I couldn't understand anything else. That is the last I've heard from him and as far as I know his friends don't know where he is either.

I've noticed a huge change in the kiddo though..it really is better for him when his dad just stays away. It really saddens me to say that but when he's coming and going the kiddo gets so emotional and upset. It's not fair. Either be there or go away and stay away.