Tuesday, February 8, 2011

This Is Why I Hesitate

Asshole got out of jail mid January.. He has called a total of 3 times. Kiddo chose to call him back one of the 3 times and they talked for a bit. The end of the call ended with asshole telling kiddo to "tell your mom you want to see me". There he goes putting everything on the shoulders of a child. He's called once since they spoke and that was almost 2 weeks ago.
I got an email on the 4th, though I just saw it today, that says "I need to see (kiddo) within the next 2 weeks". He has not once chosen to speak with me in any form to actually tell me that he's out of jail, where he might be staying, if she's sober and getting his shit together..nothing that in any way would make me feel that it's a good idea to get them together. Aside from the fact that once again he's popping up and disappearing again which takes a huge tole on the kid. It just totally breaks my heart.
I've said it a million times and I'll say it again..either stick around and do good or go away and don't come back.

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